of Conway, AR
September 29, 1934 - June 5, 2024
Mamie Helen Walker Staton was born on September 29, 1934 in Los Angeles, California to parents Ralph Dean Walker and Lena Elizabeth Kirkham Walker. She departed this life on June 5, 2024 at the age of 89 years, 8 months and 7 days. She grew up in Los Angeles, California as the oldest of eight children. Mamie taught herself to play piano at a young age. Her sister Evelyn recalls that one Sunday, Mamie, who was about 14 years of age, their Dad and herself went to church. For an unknown reason, their Dad decided to go to a small church instead of their home church. The church did not have a pianist and her Dad volunteered Mamie to play the piano. She did and after the service, the pastor asked the congregation to approve her appointment as pianist. One older lady in the congregation disagreed because ''they didn't know what kind of person she was''. As we all know, she later proved herself over and over again. She graduated at the top of her class from George Washington High School in Los Angeles in 1952.
Mamie met the love of her life, Eugene Douglas Staton, who was from Arkansas while he was stationed at San Diego with the United States Navy. They were married on August 22,1952 at the home of the bride's aunt and uncle in Los Angeles, California. We know that Mamie was probably very nervous as Gene was late for the wedding because the train he was on caught on fire. She also stepped in a hole walking down the aisle and sprained her ankle. Even after the mishaps, the marriage lasted for 71 years and 9 months until Gene's death. Two weeks later Gene was shipped out on the USS Los Angeles to participate in the Korean War. After he was discharged in 1954, they made their home in California and Oregon. On March 23, 1955, they had their first child, Donald Wayne Staton while living in Brookings, Oregon. Donald was 17 minutes older than Mamie's youngest sibling, Stanley. On June 29,1957 he was joined by a brother, Randy Douglas Staton who was born in Little Rock, Arkansas. Their family was completed on March 21,1959 at Pine Bluff, Arkansas when Karen Lynne ''Kerry'' Staton joined the two boys. Lots of fun times were had through the years as the children were growing up. Swimming and deer hunting were favorite pastimes during these years. Once Mamie was fortunate enough to kill a deer, but Gene did not get one that year. He wasn't very happy about that.
In 1963 Gene and Mamie returned from living in California and Oregon for the last time and never left Arkansas to live again. They lived in such towns as Gillet and Conway, finally settling in Bigelow in 1990 on the banks of the Arkansas River at Toad Suck. This was their dream home that the entire family helped to build. Mamie took great care in designing the draperies and the interior design of this house.
Mamie held many jobs during her lifetime other than her most important job of wife and mother. In her young years, she helped her Dad in the family business, Walker's Tree Service. She also liked to stay home and study instead of helping her Dad cut down trees and that may be the reason for her excellent grades. With her first paycheck she bought a watch. While living in Oregon she worked at a pear packing plant and the family would enjoy pears that weren't quite good enough to sell. She worked with Gene at Staton's Landing on Lake Conway near Mayflower cooking meals for the customers of the boat dock business when the children were young. She at one time worked at Damascus, Arkansas as a secretary for the Titan Missile Complex and was known as an excellent typist. She planted many gardens with Gene and helped raise cows and hogs also. But her greatest accomplishment was Staton's Draperies. This profession came about when a neighbor asked her if she could sew draperies. At that point, she began her lifelong calling. She made drapes, bedspreads, sheets, quilts, pillows, shams, cornice boards and anything you could imagine or that she saw a picture of that she liked. She could operate saws, drills, hammers, any tool that she needed to complete a project. Some of her customers included the Arkansas Governors Mansion (three times while Bill Clinton was governor), the Walton Family and JB Hunt Family in Northwest Arkansas and many, many other customers in Central Arkansas. Her business just kept growing through the years. When she finally retired for good in her early 80's people were still calling her wanting her to make draperies and bedspreads.
Mamie loved to play gospel songs on the piano, sing around the house while working, was an avid reader of romance novels, played tennis when younger, watched Arkansas Razorback basketball on television, shoe shopping and of course, loved to sew for her eight granddaughters and other family. In her spare time she loved playing Canasta, especially with family and going to the casino in Tunica with Gene. In her later years, she loved to work jigsaw puzzles and always had one on the table. Her favorite food was fish which was appropriate as Gene caught thousands of catfish out of the Arkansas River. She also was a fantastic cook and loved to cook for friends and family.
Mamie is survived by one daughter, Kerry and her husband, Alan King of Daphne, Alabama; two sons, Donald and his wife, Donna of Dyer, Arkansas and Randy Staton of Conway, Arkansas. Eight granddaughters, Michelle, Jennifer, Chassidy, Brooke, Corri, Katelyn, Mariah and Hannah and 18 great-grandchildren. She is also survived by four sisters, Evelyn Sterkel, Adria Rapp, Wanda Groen and Juanita Rennegarbe and two brothers, Eddie Walker and Stanley Walker. She was preceded in death by her parents; one sister, Cecile Carlson and her husband, Eugene Douglas Staton by 13 days.
Funeral Services will be held Tuesday, June 11, 2024 at 2:00 pm at Roller-McNutt Funeral Home in Conway. Visitation will be one hour prior to the service. Burial will be at Crestlawn Cemetery in Conway next to her recently departed husband, Gene.
We met Mamie and Gene on November 22, 2022 after receiving a call from her asking for our help with her Medicare insurance. For us, there is no such thing as a typical appointment and Mamie and Gene were certainly not going to break that rule. From the first look into Mamie's eyes and shaking the strong hand of Gene's, we knew right away that God's love was at work again. Over the next two years and up to a few weeks before Gene's passing, we walked into their basement doors a number of times each month. Sometimes it was Medicare that initiated the visit but most times, It was just having a moment with two of the nicest and funniest people we were blessed to know. If you knew them, then you know what we mean when we say that Mamie's smile or grin and piercing eyes that also grinned at you were just the prescription for a day of healing in a bath of God''s love. and Eugene; that man could tell you what was on his mind in a way that you wanted him to regale you forever. Then...abruptly... he would say "I'm sorry for that!." And before you left, Gene always had a can of Coca-Cola to offer you; "You can get it in the refrigerator." Thank you Donald, thank you Randy, and thank you Michele, for trusting us with your parents'' and grandparents'' healthcare. You are loved. We are blessed. We truly miss them.
We have so many great memories of Aunt Mamie and Uncle Gene. My siblings and I had some of the most memorable summers ever staying in Arkansas with our Aunt and Uncle as hosts, and our cousins. We learned so many things, and had lots of experiences that us "city slickers" never would have had otherwise!!! Much later, I got to return to Arkansas for Mamie and Gene's 50th wedding anniversary party - I'll never forget the terrific fish fry on the Arkansas River! They were gracious hosts and one special memory I have is Mamie's exuberant garden! (She had an amazing garden in Oregon too, when we were much younger, and THAT garden was the scene of the infamous mud fight between 2 cousins - Kerry and Johnny...but that's another story). Back to Mamie's garden. I loved tending the garden with her. She taught me how to look for giant hornworms and I although I tried to model her fearless approach to just plucking them from the tomatoes and dispatching them by hand, I never did quite used to it. But the payoff came at dinnertime when Mamie would slice up a dozen of those fat ripe tomatoes, so bright red and luscious I can still picture those sliced tomatoes and it makes my mouth water. I have always compared ALL other garden tomatoes I've eaten to Mamie's and NONE have lived up to the comparison! She put a whole lotta love and energy into that garden, just like she did into her family. Our family still cherishes the bedding items made by Mamie decades ago.
Aunt Mamie was very fortunate to have all of you!
With love,
Kathy
To our beloved sister. We all loved her very much and have so many wonderful memories of good times with Aunt Mamie and family. We were always welcome. Lots of love from our entire family.
To the best sister ever: it’s sad that we weren’t able to spend more time together over the years as our lives took us in different directions. But our love and caring for one another has always been unmistakable.
Until we meet in heaven,
I love you,
Evelyn
To Donald, Randy and Kerry, I’d love to be with you as you grieve such loss.
Hugs go out to the family! I loved your mom dearly, she was a very strong woman and a good example to anyone she encountered! I admire her for her many accomplishments as a seamstress as she could sew up anything and always do a very professional job! Her talent was amazing! She could be just the right amount of sweet…
She will definitely be missed.
A loving sister who would do anything for anybody.
My love to your family. So much loss so close together. Prayers for all of you.
To our beloved sister. We love her very much